A Wrench Has Been Thrown
Craziness. I was feeling strong. I was feeling confident. I was feeling like I was somewhat accepting my "fate" or future or whatever you want to call it. Then, the week before Poland arrived...he changed. We're talking hard stop. 180-degree about face. And, it has been amazing. He has been 100% calm, cool, and collected. He hasn't gotten on my case about what Charlie's eating (or moreover NOT eating). He hasn't freaked out about the house being a mess. He hasn't pushed for sex/affection and gotten upset and angry when it wasn't received. He's been...normal. What a husband should be. And, the big thing is I am not doing anything different than I had been. So I've just been living and being me. This is all his change. It's also important to note he 1. Has family here and 2. Is NOT at work. And, I have said all along, it's work that is making him so miserable. But, right now he is HAPPY. He is FUN to be around. We even just laid on the b...